Learn to love the crazy


There’s so many mixed messages out there about love: Love yourself more, share your love more. Don’t love any less than 100%, you deserve a perfect love. Leave if you aren’t getting what you need from your relationship, relationships take a lot of work so don’t give it up. Do what’s right for yourself, don’t be selfish. Don’t be so picky, don’t settle for less. Find a soul that matches yours, love is chemical. If the feelings are mutual, the effort is mutual. Men are from Mars, Women is from Venus… and on and on and on.  Ugh. 

All of its right and all of its wrong. Everyone is different. There’s no one size fits all to how find love. There’s no true 36 questions for finding The One.  But I’ll share my mind on the matter and let you in on my personal philosophy:

Love like crazy. Love is crazy. Love makes you crazy.  Learn to love the crazy.  

That may be the greatest thing I’ve realized recently.  Love is never as I expect it to be, it’s always changing, never the same from day to day, hurts more than child labor, puts my head in the clouds, gives me bliss out of this world, and at times it’s even better than I ever could’ve imagined. 

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